Showing posts with label beach. Show all posts
Showing posts with label beach. Show all posts

Wednesday, April 04, 2018

D is for Dating

Welcome to the A to Z blogging challenge where for the month of April we post everyday except Sundays, corresponding to each letter of the alphabet. I've chosen to blog about keeping the romance alive in a relationship along with ideas for married couple dates. Each post will also have a romantic song for you to listen to whilst you read.

Today's romantic song is Celine Dion - Falling Into You. Beautiful lyrics;

And in your eyes I see ribbons of color

I see us inside of each other
I feel my unconscious merge with yours
And I hear a voice say, What's his is hers


Did you stop dating once you got married? Hopefully not, as dating is such a special part of any relationship. If you're married can you remember the best date you ever went on with your spouse?

My favourite pre marriage date was when my beloved took me to the cinema in Leicester Square in London, bought the biggest bucket of popcorn available, and then proceeded to spill it all over the floor as we sat down. It's my favourite as it made us laugh a lot, and I've never seen popcorn spread so far.

In our eighteen years of marriage it's difficult to pick one date as my favourite, but I'm going to choose the day we spent on Luskentyre beach in the Outer Hebrides. We had a picnic, played games, built sandcastles (see B post), and just enjoyed being the only people there for the whole day.



A great website to look at if you want ideas for fun dates, is the Dating Divas - I love their motto, "strengthening marriages, one date at a time". Check out their website as they have great ideas for lots of romantic things.

Sometimes, when you're really busy you need to make time in your diary for your other half, write it in so you don't replace it with anything else. Go out for dinner, or even just go to your local ice cream parlour and indulge together. Book a date with your person now.

Today's quote is perfect and I couldn't have said it better myself.


Pamela & Ken
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Previous A to Z posts:

2017 = D is for Duirinish

2016 = D is for Doors

Monday, April 02, 2018

B is for Beaches

Welcome to the A to Z blogging challenge where for the month of April we post everyday except Sundays, corresponding to each letter of the alphabet. I've chosen to blog about keeping the romance alive in a relationship along with ideas for married couple dates. Each post will also have a romantic song for you to listen to whilst you read.

Today's song choice is the Bangles - Eternal Flame.


B is for beaches - not the film, but that would be a great one to watch if you wanted to see each other cry. No, I mean the sandy ones that are perfect for long walks, picnics, beachcombing, and just sitting in the sun together.

Boat Harbour Beach, Tasmania
I know some of you are now saying that you don't live near a beach, and I'm going to tell you that it's not a problem. Before we were married we both lived in London and there wasn't a beach close to us, so I had to improvise. For one of our at home dates I bought inexpensive posters of tropical scenes, cooked something you would have on holiday in a warm place, and made cocktails with umbrellas in them - our own personal evening at the beach.

If you do live near a beach make sure you use it. It can be too easy to let life get in the way and you don't take the time to enjoy the natural beauty on your doorstep. Walking along a beach together can be incredibly therapeutic and restorative, time together just being a couple. On our new years day walk this year we saw a young man propose to his girlfriend on the beach, which was beautiful.

Winter beach walk
Another great thing to do at the beach is to bring out your inner child and build sand castles together, or you can each build one and have a competition to see whose is the best. The below two are ones we built many years ago in Tasmania and after taking these photos we got my parents to pick the winner without knowing who had built which one - my beloved came out victorious.



Why don't you make a beach date together soon, even if you never leave home to do it.

Fossil Bluff Tasmania
I'll leave you with this lovely quote:


Pamela & Ken
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Previous A to Z posts:

2017 = B is for Battlefield

2016 = B is for Blessed